Recommendation 8

Learn the right question to ask.

Note: The subconscious is closed off when we ask “Why do I… or Why does...”, just as children and adults are closed off when asked WHY they did or did not do something.  Why stimulates the defense mechanism in all of us, and although we may attempt to explain, a part of us is hurt and shamed. In using Dr Thompson’s work we want only to learn and move forward.